tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36983871.post2747406177567836348..comments2023-04-13T02:35:37.554-07:00Comments on Four Plus Four Equals Ten: Whatdya need?Triciahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14581392888793642746noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36983871.post-42719665100912198682008-03-05T13:46:00.000-08:002008-03-05T13:46:00.000-08:00I 'only' lost three... the suggestions to "not tel...I 'only' lost three... the suggestions to "not tell anyone until after 12 weeks" drove me a little nutty. Like we shouldn't grieve the loss of life, keep it a secret, hold it in...Triciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14581392888793642746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36983871.post-88474516158756077342008-03-05T13:11:00.000-08:002008-03-05T13:11:00.000-08:00Oh wow. That would be a very hard one to let go o...Oh wow. That would be a very hard one to let go of. <BR/><BR/>I once had a friend tell me (while I was in the midst of m/c after m/c) that maybe I should wait until around 8-10 weeks after missing my period to test for my pregnancies.....that way, if I started to bleed before testing and lost the baby, it would be just like getting my period!<BR/><BR/>I replied that, while that was a great idea and all, I normally don't pass a placenta with my period.<BR/><BR/>It takes all kinds, you know. <BR/><BR/>I am so sorry for your losses. They are so hard and sorrowful.Jodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05790787955193833733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36983871.post-8619324200425272632008-03-02T18:08:00.000-08:002008-03-02T18:08:00.000-08:00I think you will find that this is a trend. It see...I think you will find that this is a trend. It seems that in life there are givers and then there are takers. I find that the ones I give the most to are unwilling or unable to give much back. I used to think I was giving giving giving so that if, someday I needed something what I gave would come back to me. Now I know that I give with no expectation of ever getting anything back. My new daughter has been hospitalized 3times since Christmas, its amazing how fast my phone stops ringing and how quiet things get during those times. <BR/><BR/>Im sorry for your losses.MommyNayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10959938025230597364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36983871.post-56018590315342122242008-03-02T12:33:00.000-08:002008-03-02T12:33:00.000-08:00I can so relate! I try to let those things go - b...I can so relate! I try to let those things go - but they are hard to forget. But then the next time I'm always there offering help.....Sheeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02401835350181159000noreply@blogger.com